Parents Guide: The Medical Career Path
Understanding the journey to MBBS
Your child wants to become a doctor. As a parent, you have questions: What does it take? What's the investment? What are realistic expectations? This guide provides honest answers to help you support your child's medical dreams.
Common Myths Parents Have About NEET and Medical Career
Myth
Only toppers can crack NEET and become doctors
Reality
Consistent, average students often succeed better than brilliant but inconsistent ones
💡 NEET doesn't require genius-level intelligence. It requires consistent study, good memory, and problem-solving skills. Many students who were average in Class 10 became doctors because they developed strong study habits. What matters is dedication for 2 years, not past academic brilliance. Your child doesn't need 95% marks to dream of MBBS - they need discipline and determination.
Myth
We must send our child to expensive coaching in Kota or Delhi
Reality
Many students crack NEET from smaller cities with local coaching or self-study
💡 Big city coaching institutes are good, but not mandatory. They cost ₹2-3 lakh per year (fees + hostel + living). Many students from Madhya Pradesh crack NEET studying locally. Factors that matter more: Quality of study material (NCERT primarily), student's discipline, regular tests, and good Biology teaching. A focused student in Hatpipliya/Dewas with ₹50K local coaching can outperform a distracted student in Kota with ₹2L coaching. Save money, reduce homesickness, get personal attention in smaller batches.
Myth
Medical career is only for very wealthy families
Reality
Government medical colleges charge only ₹50K-2L for entire 5.5 years MBBS
💡 Total cost breakdown: NEET preparation coaching: ₹40K-2L depending on choice. MBBS in government college: ₹50K-2L total (₹10K-40K per year) - very affordable. After MBBS, doctors earn ₹60K-1L+ per month starting salary. Return on investment is excellent. Private medical colleges are expensive (₹50L-1.5Cr) but government seats are accessible and affordable. Middle-class families can absolutely afford the doctor dream through government medical colleges. Education loans available for fees if needed.
Myth
Our child will have no life for 10+ years during studies
Reality
NEET preparation is intense for 2 years, but MBBS life is balanced and fulfilling
💡 Timeline reality: Class 11-12 NEET prep (2 years) is intense but manageable with proper schedule. MBBS (5.5 years) is busy but students have college life, friends, festivals, relationships. Post-MBBS internship (1 year) teaches practical skills. MD/MS (optional, 3 years) for specialization. Yes, it's longer than engineering, but medical students enjoy their journey. They're not locked in rooms studying 24/7. College life in medical colleges is vibrant, fulfilling, with lifelong friendships.
Myth
There are very few medical seats, chances are too low
Reality
91,000+ MBBS seats in India, plus BDS, BAMS, BHMS options
💡 MBBS seats: 91,000+ (government + private colleges). BDS (Dental): 27,000+ seats. BAMS/BHMS: 50,000+ seats. Total healthcare seats through NEET: 1.5+ lakh. Yes, 18-20 lakh students appear for NEET, so competition exists. But with proper preparation (NCERT focus, regular tests, good coaching), scoring 550-600/720 for government medical college is achievable. It's competitive but not impossible. Thousands of middle-class students crack it every year.
Myth
Girls shouldn't become doctors due to tough working hours
Reality
50%+ of medical students are girls; medicine offers flexible career options
💡 Facts: More than 50% of current MBBS students are female. Medicine offers diverse career paths: General physician (own clinic, flexible hours), Specializations like Dermatology, Pediatrics, Gynecology (good work-life balance), Government doctor jobs (fixed duty hours), Research and academics. Medical degree is one of the MOST respected careers for women. Can practice from home, work part-time, or full-time based on family needs. Society respects female doctors highly. It's 2025, let's not limit our daughters' dreams based on outdated thinking.
Advantages of Supporting Your Child's Medical Career
Stable, Respected Career with High Earning Potential
Doctors enjoy one of the most stable and well-paying careers across all economic conditions.
Multiple Career Paths and Flexibility
Medical degree opens numerous career options beyond just being a hospital doctor.
Satisfaction of Serving Society and Saving Lives
Few careers offer the deep satisfaction and purpose that medicine provides.
Strong Marriage Prospects and Social Status
Medical profession enhances family reputation and improves marriage prospects significantly.
Good Return on Investment (ROI)
Medical education offers one of the best financial returns compared to other professional courses.
Challenges Parents Face and How to Help
Challenge: Managing Financial Pressure of Coaching Fees
Coaching fees range from ₹40K to ₹2L+ annually. Plus books, test series, living expenses if child goes to another city. Many parents worry about affording quality education without family financial stress.
Solutions
Budget-Conscious Local Coaching
Choose quality local coaching in Dewas/Hatpipliya region instead of expensive metro city institutes. Save on hostel and living costs.
- • Cost-effective: ₹40-60K per year vs ₹2L+ in big cities
- • Save ₹60K-1L annually on hostel and food expenses
- • Child stays at home: Better mental health, no homesickness
- • Small batch sizes mean better personal attention to your child
- • Requires good local coaching availability (which exists in Hatpipliya/Dewas)
Hybrid Model: Local Coaching + Online Resources
Combine affordable local coaching with free/low-cost online platforms for supplementary learning.
- • Best of both worlds: Personal interaction + quality online content
- • Online subscriptions cost ₹10-30K annually, still cheaper than metro coaching
- • Child can replay difficult topics through recorded lectures
- • Access to top educators without expensive relocation
- • Requires student to have self-discipline for online study
Education Loan Option
Consider education loan for coaching and future MBBS fees if needed. Banks offer loans with reasonable interest rates.
- • Immediate financial burden reduced, spread payments over time
- • Don't compromise on quality education due to current cash flow
- • After becoming doctor, loan easily repayable from salary
- • Interest burden exists (though manageable with doctor's future salary)
Challenge: Dealing with Child's Stress and Emotional Breakdowns
NEET preparation is mentally taxing. Students face anxiety, fear of failure, comparison stress, burnout. Parents often don't know how to handle emotional outbursts or motivation loss.
Solutions
Create Supportive, Pressure-Free Home Environment
Be the safe space where your child can be vulnerable without judgment or added pressure.
- • Child feels emotionally supported, reduces isolation
- • Open communication helps identify problems early
- • Home becomes stress-relief place, not additional pressure source
- • Requires parents to control their own anxiety and not project it on child
Avoid Constant Comparison with Others
Don't constantly compare your child's progress with neighbor's son/daughter or cousin who scored higher.
- • Builds child's self-confidence instead of destroying it
- • Reduces performance anxiety, child focuses on own improvement
- • Healthier parent-child relationship during stressful period
- • Requires conscious effort to not engage in social comparison culture
Recognize Signs of Serious Mental Health Issues
Watch for warning signs: prolonged sadness, social withdrawal, sleep issues, talk of hopelessness. Seek professional help if needed.
- • Early intervention prevents serious mental health crisis
- • Shows child that mental health is priority, not just NEET score
- • Professional counselors can provide coping strategies
- • May require additional expense for counseling sessions
Challenge: Uncertainty About Making the Right Coaching Choice
Too many options confuse parents: Big city coaching or local? Online or offline? Expensive or budget-friendly? How to evaluate coaching quality without expertise?
Solutions
Evaluate Based on These Key Factors
Focus on: Biology teacher quality (most important for NEET), batch size (smaller is better), past results with proof, test series availability, doubt-clearing sessions, student-teacher interaction.
- • Data-driven decision instead of marketing-based choice
- • These factors correlate with actual NEET success
- • Requires time investment to research and visit multiple coaching centers
Try Before Fully Committing
Many coaching institutes offer demo classes or trial periods. Use them. Talk to current students and parents.
- • Reduces risk of expensive wrong choice
- • Child gets to experience teaching style before commitment
- • Feedback from existing parents is invaluable
- • Delays final decision, but better than rushing into wrong choice
Challenge: Balancing Support with Accountability
Parents struggle to find the right balance: Too much pressure damages relationship and mental health. Too lenient and child may not study seriously. Where's the middle ground?
Solutions
Set Clear Expectations Together
Sit with your child and mutually decide study schedule, goals, screen time rules. When they participate in rule-making, they're more likely to follow.
- • Shared responsibility, not imposed rules
- • Child feels respected and heard
- • Creates accountability without rebellion
- • Requires patience and negotiation skills from parents
Track Progress Through Coaching Communication
Regularly communicate with coaching institute about attendance, test scores, teacher feedback. Don't just rely on what child tells you.
- • Objective data about child's actual progress
- • Early identification of attendance or performance issues
- • Shows child that parents are involved and aware
- • Can feel like surveillance if not communicated properly to child
Resources for Parents to Understand NEET Better
Understanding NEET Exam Structure
Official NTA NEET Website
Latest exam pattern, syllabus, eligibility criteria, important dates. Visit nta.ac.in for authentic information.
NEET Syllabus Document
Download the official NEET syllabus to understand what topics your child needs to cover in Physics, Chemistry, Biology.
NEET Previous Year Question Papers
Look at past 5 years' papers to understand difficulty level and question patterns. Shows you what NEET actually tests.
Medical Career Information
Medical Council of India (NMC) Website
Information about medical colleges, regulations, career paths after MBBS. Official source for medical education in India.
MBBS Admission Process and Counseling Guide
Understanding how NEET scores convert to college seats, state quota vs all-India quota, counseling rounds.
Government vs Private Medical College Cost Comparison
Research tools to compare fees of different medical colleges. Helps you understand financial planning needed.
Books and Guides for Parents
NEET Parent's Handbook
Various publications offer guides specifically for parents of NEET aspirants, covering preparation tips, mental health, career guidance.
Career Counseling Books
Books about medical career prospects, specializations, day-to-day life of doctors. Helps set realistic expectations.
Communication with Coaching Institute
Regular Parent-Teacher Meetings
Most coaching institutes conduct monthly or quarterly PTMs. Attend these to understand your child's progress, strengths, weaknesses.
Coaching Test Reports and Analysis
Ask for detailed test performance reports. These show subject-wise strength, chapter-wise weak areas, time management issues.
Parent WhatsApp Groups
Many coaching centers have parent groups for announcements, doubt resolution. Also helps you connect with other parents facing similar challenges.
Mental Health and Counseling Resources
Professional Career Counselors
Consider consulting a career counselor to help your child (and you) navigate stress, decision-making, career clarity.
Mental Health Helplines
Numbers like NIMHANS helpline (080-46110007) or iCall (9152987821) for free mental health support for students.
Books on Parenting Teens Under Stress
Books like 'The Teenage Brain' or India-specific parenting guides help understand adolescent psychology during high-pressure exam prep.
How to Support Your Child Emotionally During NEET Preparation
Creating a Positive Home Environment
Your home should be a place of comfort and encouragement, not additional pressure.
Key Strategies
Avoid Creating Tense Atmosphere
Don't constantly talk about NEET, scores, competition. Have normal family conversations. Laugh together. Watch a movie occasionally. Your child needs mental breaks. Don't make everything about the exam - life exists beyond NEET too.
Provide Good Nutrition and Sleep Environment
Cook nutritious meals. Brain needs proper fuel. Ensure quiet sleeping space - sleep is when memory consolidates. Don't wake child up at 4 AM forcibly - quality sleep is more important than early rising. 7-8 hours sleep is non-negotiable for NEET success.
Minimize Domestic Conflicts
If there are family tensions or marital conflicts, try to minimize them or keep them away from your NEET aspirant. They're already stressed enough. Shield them from additional family drama during these crucial 2 years.
Communication Do's and Don'ts
How you talk to your child during NEET preparation can make or break their confidence and mental health.
Key Strategies
DO: Listen Without Immediate Solutions
When your child shares stress or fear, first just LISTEN. Don't immediately jump to advice or criticism. Sometimes they just need to vent. Say things like: 'I understand this is tough', 'You're doing your best', 'It's okay to feel overwhelmed sometimes'. Validation reduces stress.
DON'T: Compare with Others
Never say: 'Sharma ji's son scored 95% in test', 'Your cousin studies more than you', 'See how focused your friend is'. Comparison DESTROYS confidence. Instead say: 'You're improving compared to last month', 'I'm proud of your effort', 'Keep focusing on your own journey'.
DO: Acknowledge the Difficulty
NEET IS hard. Don't minimize it with 'It's just an exam, don't stress'. That invalidates their struggle. Instead: 'Yes, NEET is challenging, but I believe in your capability', 'It's a tough competition, and I'm here to support you through it'. Acknowledgment builds trust.
DON'T: Emotional Blackmail
Never say: 'We spent so much on coaching, don't waste our money', 'If you fail, what will society say', 'You're our only hope'. This creates guilt and paralyzing pressure. Your love should be unconditional, not dependent on NEET results.
Recognizing Warning Signs of Mental Health Issues
Some stress is normal, but watch for signs that indicate your child needs professional help.
Key Strategies
Warning Signs to Watch
Prolonged sadness lasting weeks, social withdrawal (stops talking to everyone), drastic sleep changes (insomnia or oversleeping), loss of appetite or overeating, talk of hopelessness or self-harm, sudden drop in performance, physical symptoms like constant headaches. If you notice multiple signs persisting for 2+ weeks, seek help immediately.
Seek Professional Help Without Stigma
Counseling or therapy is NOT a sign of weakness. It's responsible parenting. Many successful students have taken therapy during NEET prep. Mental health professionals provide coping strategies, stress management techniques. Don't wait until crisis - preventive counseling helps too.
Remember: Your Child's Life > NEET Score
If you must choose between your child's mental health and NEET preparation, choose mental health every time. No exam is worth depression, anxiety disorders, or worse. A healthy child who takes an extra year is better than a traumatized child who cracks NEET at the cost of mental health.
Managing Your Own Parental Anxiety
Parents are stressed too! But you need to manage your anxiety so it doesn't transfer to your child.
Key Strategies
Accept That You Cannot Control Everything
You can provide resources, support, environment. But ultimately, your child has to study, appear for exam, perform. Acceptance of what's in your control vs what's not reduces your stress. Trust the process you've set up (good coaching, study environment, support) and let go of obsessive control.
Don't Let NEET Consume Your Entire Life
Your life exists beyond your child's exam. Maintain your own hobbies, social connections, work. If you make NEET your entire identity for 2 years, you'll project intense pressure on your child. Balanced parents raise balanced children.
Connect with Other NEET Parents
Join parent support groups (coaching center WhatsApp groups, online forums). Sharing experiences with other parents who understand reduces isolation. You'll realize your anxieties are common, and you can learn from others' strategies.
Success Stories: Parent Perspectives
From Doubt to Doctor: A Mother's Journey
Background
Middle-class family from Dewas, father is government school teacher, mother homemaker
Achievement
NEET Score: 589/720 - Government Medical College admission
The Journey
Parent's Perspective (Mother speaking): 'When Neha said she wanted to become a doctor in Class 10, I was both proud and terrified. Proud that my daughter had such an ambitious dream, terrified about the costs and competition. My husband earns ₹40,000 monthly. How would we afford ₹2 lakh coaching? We considered giving up the dream. Then we researched local options in Dewas. Found good coaching for ₹50,000 per year. Neha stayed at home, we saved on hostel. The 2 years were tough on all of us. I had to bite my tongue many times when I wanted to compare her with other kids. Some days she cried saying she can't do it. I just hugged her, didn't give advice or pressure. My husband and I decided: Even if she doesn't crack NEET, we'll not make her feel like a failure. That unconditional support, I think, reduced her anxiety. She studied better when she knew we loved her regardless of results. When NEET results came and she scored 589, we cried together. Today she's in medical college, and she still thanks us for not pressuring her but supporting her. To parents: Your emotional support matters more than expensive coaching.'
Key Takeaway
Unconditional love and local affordable coaching can work wonders. Emotional support > Expensive infrastructure.
Overcoming Financial Constraints: A Father's Determination
Background
Family from Hatpipliya, father runs small electronics shop, annual income around ₹3 lakh
Achievement
NEET Score: 612/720 - Secured government medical college seat
The Journey
Parent's Perspective (Father speaking): 'Ravi wanted to be a doctor since childhood. But I was worried - can a shopkeeper's son afford medical coaching? Our shop income is modest. Big city coaching was out of question. Then my brother told me about Shakti Bodh coaching in Hatpipliya. I visited, talked to faculty, saw past results. Fees were ₹48,000 per year - manageable for us if we saved elsewhere. Ravi studied there, came home daily, ate home food. We saved compared to what friends spent sending kids to Indore. The challenge was when Ravi failed first attempt - scored 498, just below cutoff. He was devastated, wanted to give up. I took a loan of ₹60,000 for second year coaching and test series. Told him: We'll try one more time, give your best. Second attempt, he scored 612 - huge jump! He's now in government medical college. Total we spent: around ₹1.5 lakh over 3 years (coaching + books + tests). His first year MBBS fees in government college: ₹28,000. See? Medical dream is affordable if you plan smartly and don't chase expensive brand names. To parents: Don't let limited budget kill your child's dream. Options exist.'
Key Takeaway
Limited budget ≠ Limited dreams. Smart choices, local coaching, and parental determination can make medical career accessible.
Supporting Through Failure and Comeback
Background
From Dewas district, parents are both teachers
Achievement
First attempt: 447 (failed). Second attempt: 601 (MBBS admission). Now pursuing MD.
The Journey
Parent's Perspective (Mother speaking): 'Priya's first NEET result broke our hearts. She scored 447 - so close yet so far from cutoff. She locked herself in room for 2 days, wouldn't eat or talk. That was the hardest moment as parents. Society started saying: Let her try for other courses, NEET is not for her. But we saw the fire in her eyes. We sat with her and said: Your choice. If you want to try again, we support you. If you want to move to Plan B, we support that too. She chose to try again. Second year was different. She had learned from mistakes - dropped reference books, focused only on NCERT, took more tests. We as parents also changed - stopped asking about studies constantly, reduced pressure, just provided emotional cushion. When second NEET result came - 601 marks - she screamed with joy. Today she's a doctor, doing MD in Pediatrics. She tells other students: Failure taught me more than success would have. And she tells us: Thank you for not giving up on my dream when I had failed. To parents: Your child might fail. Your support shouldn't. One failure doesn't define their capability. Sometimes the comeback is stronger than the first attempt.'
Key Takeaway
Failure is not final. Parental support during failure matters more than during success. Comebacks are possible with right mindset.
Common Parenting Mistakes During NEET Preparation
Decision-Making Mistakes
Forcing medical career on an unwilling child
Not every child wants to be a doctor. Some parents project their unfulfilled dreams onto children. Result: Unmotivated student, wasted money, damaged parent-child relationship, and potential failure.
Have an honest conversation. Ask: Do YOU want to become a doctor, or are you doing it for us? If child is unsure or unwilling, explore other careers. Medicine requires genuine interest to survive the tough journey.
Choosing coaching based only on brand name and advertising
Expensive big-brand coaching doesn't guarantee success. What matters: Teaching quality, batch size, child's learning style match, doubt-clearing access. Many students fail despite expensive coaching.
Visit multiple coaching centers. Attend demo classes. Talk to current students and parents. Check faculty credentials specifically for Biology. Evaluate based on your child's needs, not advertising claims.
Making all decisions without involving the child
Parents choose coaching, study schedule, career path - without asking child's opinion. Result: Child feels controlled, loses ownership of their journey, becomes passive participant.
Involve your 16-17 year old in decisions. Give them 2-3 good options, let them choose. When they participate in decision-making, they take more responsibility for outcomes.
Communication and Emotional Mistakes
Constantly comparing child with others' success
Sharma ji ka beta scored 650, Why can't you? - This destroys confidence, creates anxiety, damages self-esteem. Every child has different learning pace and capability.
Compare child with their own past performance. You scored 520 last mock, now 545 - that's improvement! Focus on personal growth, not others' achievements.
Using coaching fees as emotional blackmail
We spent 2 lakhs, don't waste our money - This creates guilt, not motivation. Child studies out of fear and guilt, which reduces learning effectiveness.
Your education is our investment in YOUR future, not a debt you owe us. Study for yourself, not to repay us. Removes guilt, increases intrinsic motivation.
Ignoring child's stress signals until crisis hits
Many parents notice mood changes, sleep issues, social withdrawal but think It's just exam stress, it'll pass. By the time they act, child is in depression or burnout.
Regularly check-in: How are you feeling emotionally? (not just How's studies?). If stress signals persist 2+ weeks, consult a counselor. Prevention is better than crisis management.
Showing disappointment visibly when child gets low scores
Your face falls, you become silent, or say That's all? - Child internalizes: I'm a disappointment. This kills motivation and creates fear of sharing future scores.
Okay, this score isn't what we hoped. Let's analyze where you lost marks and improve. Maintain composure. Disappointment is okay to feel, but don't make child feel like a failure.
Practical and Lifestyle Mistakes
Not monitoring child's actual study vs. sitting with books
Child sits in room for 10 hours but actually studies only 4-5 hours effectively. Rest is phone browsing, daydreaming, unfocused reading. Parents assume 10 hours sitting = 10 hours studying.
Quality matters, not quantity. Occasionally check: What topics did you complete today? Can you explain this concept to me? Track via coaching test performance, not study hours.
Allowing unlimited phone and social media access
Some parents don't set boundaries: Let them relax, they're stressed. Result: 3-4 hours daily on Instagram/YouTube = massive productivity loss. Social media is addictive by design.
Set clear phone rules together: 30-60 min daily during break time. No phone during study blocks. Install app blockers if needed. Balance: Some access for sanity, but strict limits.
Not maintaining communication with coaching institute
Parents pay fees and then disconnect. Don't attend PTMs, don't check attendance, don't review test reports. Miss red flags: Low attendance, declining scores, behavioral issues.
Attend every parent-teacher meeting. Review monthly test reports. Maintain contact with class coordinator. Early detection of problems allows timely intervention.
Compromising on child's health (sleep, nutrition, exercise)
Let them study more, sleep can be sacrificed - Wrong! Sleep deprivation reduces memory, increases stress hormones, leads to illness. Poor nutrition affects brain function.
Non-negotiables: 7-8 hours sleep, 3 nutritious meals, 30 min daily physical activity. Healthy child performs better than exhausted child. Health is prerequisite for NEET success, not obstacle.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is the medical career worth the 10+ year investment?
Yes, if your child is genuinely interested in medicine. The long journey (2 years NEET prep + 5.5 years MBBS + 3 years MD optional) leads to a stable, well-paying, respected career. Doctors enjoy job security, good earnings (₹60K-3L+ monthly), social respect, and the satisfaction of serving society. However, it shouldn't be forced - the child must want this career for themselves. Return on investment is excellent financially and emotionally for those with genuine passion for medicine.
How much will it really cost to make my child a doctor?
Realistic breakdown: NEET Preparation (2 years): ₹40K-2L depending on local vs metro coaching. MBBS in Government College: ₹50K-2L total for 5.5 years (very affordable!). MBBS in Private College: ₹50L-1.5Cr (expensive, but education loans available). Books, test series, misc: ₹50K-1L. Most affordable path: Total ₹3-6 lakh (local coaching + govt medical college). This is highly affordable compared to engineering or other professional courses. After becoming doctor, starting salary ₹60K+ monthly, so investment recovers quickly.
Should we send our child to Kota or big city for coaching?
Not necessarily mandatory. Big city coaching has advantages (experienced faculty, competition) but also drawbacks (₹2-3L annual cost, homesickness, distractions, large batches). Many students crack NEET from local coaching. Consider: If good Biology teaching and regular tests available locally + your child has discipline for self-study, local coaching works well. Saves money, child stays home (better mental health), small batches mean personal attention. Try local coaching for Class 11. If child struggles, consider moving to city for Class 12. Not every student needs Kota - it depends on individual learning style and local resources.
How can we tell if our child is really studying or just pretending?
Look for objective indicators, not just study hours: Test performance: Are coaching test scores improving consistently? Can they explain: Ask child to explain concepts they studied - if they can teach you, they've learned. Coaching feedback: Regular communication with teachers about attendance, participation, homework completion. Check notebooks: Are notes being made? Are practice problems solved? Syllabus tracking: Is there a study plan? Are chapters getting completed on schedule? Don't just count study hours - sitting with books ≠ actual learning. Focus on outcomes (test scores, understanding) rather than input (hours at desk).
What if our child fails NEET? What are backup options?
First: NEET can be attempted multiple times, so one failure isn't final. Many succeed in 2nd or 3rd attempt. Backup healthcare careers through NEET: BDS (Dental) - 27,000+ seats, respectable career. BAMS/BHMS (Ayurveda/Homeopathy) - 50,000+ seats, growing demand. B.Sc Nursing, Pharmacy, Paramedical courses. Non-NEET options: B.Sc in Biology, Biotechnology, Microbiology. Allied health sciences. Research careers. Important: Discuss backup plans early - reduces pressure, provides safety net. These aren't 'failures', they're alternative respectable careers. Having Plan B actually improves NEET performance as it reduces do-or-die anxiety.
How do we handle relatives' questions and social pressure?
Common scenario: Relatives constantly asking about child's preparation, comparing with other kids, giving unsolicited advice. How to handle: Set boundaries: Politely tell relatives: We appreciate your concern, but let's not discuss studies during family gatherings. It adds pressure. Protect your child: Don't let relatives interrogate your child about scores or coaching. You answer on their behalf if needed. Ignore comparisons: When someone says Sharma ji's son scored 650, smile and say Every child has their own journey. Stop discussing scores: Don't share your child's test scores with extended family. It's private information. Focus on your child's wellbeing, not social validation. Remember: After NEET, these relatives won't help - but their pressure can harm your child now. Your job is to be your child's shield, not society's messenger.
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